Aloha!

Hi everyone! It's been so long since I last updated The Bumblebeez. I know....so sorry. I just didn't feel like writing. We're still adjusting to life here. By the way, we're doing great. We're all finally together as a one big happy family in Hawaii! Been through a lot these past few months since we got here. I got here first in mid July 09, got married the very next day right after arrival, was on Tylenol for weeks since then coz I kept feeling feverish (H1N1 scare) plus totally homesick especially for being apart from the boys for months - 6 months to be exact! Submitted my PR application along with other applications - military ID so I can shop at the Nex =) and oh of course the medical insurance (extremely important here) - totally missing the comfort of walk-in clinics in Malaysia, work authorization, parole to travel outside the U.S, driving license, social security no., bank ac etc...all the paperwork & waiting = argh! But of course in between, adjusting to new life as a wife - again :-). Right after I got the parole, we planned our trip back to Malaysia for the wedding reception and to get the kids to the U.S soil before their visa and my visa expire. Man! That's one of a kind journey back and forth like that - in 4 days time! It's super duper fun, exhilarating, nerve-wrecking, tiring journey ever in my entire life! But what is not fun and sad was that Daniel's parents were not able to join us for the reception =( since we're not able to provide a specific date at all due to red tapes by the immigration. So I'm so sorry for that from the very bottom of my heart for that. We got the kids back, they've started school last week and life has been pretty busy for the Bonnin's family since then.

So, I'll do my best to keep The Bumblebeez up and running with whatever that is going on in our lives. Until then - Aloha!

How to make Bunga Rampai

My auntie Nah, Syikin's mom asked me to do Bunga Rampai fresh flower potpourri for her daughter's wedding since she saw me doing that for my brother's wedding feast (which I have not uploaded any pictures yet, sorry!) . In Malay, it is called Bunga Rampai. 'Bunga' means flower, and 'rampai' means varieties or assortment. So bunga rampai means an assortment of flowers.

Bunga rampai is used in many important occasions of the Malay folks : circumcision, graduation of Koran study, shaving a baby's hair, funeral , wedding etc. In Malay weddings during the olden days, it was an essential dowry item and was smoked all night long in the nuptial chamber. I'm not sure how it's smoked though since I've never really learned how to make bunga rampai the 'real way'.

You can use any kind of nice smelling flowers, plus flowers with bright colors. The usual flowers that we always use, which are considered traditional smelling are like jasmines, frangipani/plumeria, roses, and chempakas (white and yellow versions of local magnolia flowers). But the MAIN ingredient of bunga rampai is always fresh pandan leaves or screwpine leaves. Sometimes shredded kaffir lime skin is also used since it has nice fresh smell.

Emir is busy cutting the pandan leaves at Tok's backyard.

Is this enough ma?

First, the pandan leaves need to be finely sliced as fine as possible like what would one do for cutting ginger strips). How much you need depends on how much you want the potpourri to be but rule of thumb for me is is to have 3/4 of the whole mixture from the leaves. Next is to shred flower petals coarsely if they're too big but it's really up to you as to how you want your potpourri to be. I always leave jasmines are they are coz they're already perfect. And then you mix all up!

Next is to mix the mixture with fragrance. I use jasmine concentrated oil as I love jasmine. Some people also use rose water and then they smoke it with incense (as I've mentioned earlier) so that the smell is stronger but I prefer to use simplied version =). I think it's best to mix the oil with the pandan leaves first until they're well coated and only then add the flowers. I found that when I mixed the flowers directly with the oil, they browned quickly.

When everything is well mixed, you can choose whatever ways to stuff your bunga rampai. I choose to use fine net or you can choose to put it in organza pouch. Or you can put it into small baskets made of screw pine just like the old days (which for me is really tedious to make), or put them in folded betel leaves or just leave them in bowls around the house or the place where the wedding is to be held and let the fragrance permeate the air and whoever wants to have some potpourri can just grab some. Mom used to do that and she would use a tissue paper to wrap them. Nowadays people prefer to have it conveniently packed for guests.

Take a handful of the potpourri and put it in the middle of the net.

Secure it with a fine wire and tie a ribbon to make it prettier =)

So here you go, a basket of bunga rampai!

Syikin's wedding

My cousin Syikin got married 2 weeks ago. A very simple ceremony, started with the 'akad nikah' (wedding solemnization) at the mosque a few days before the wedding feast.

The groom is the one sitting with off white/cream shirt. And I forgot to take Syikin's picture but don't worry you'll get to see her in the next entry =).

This is the 'sirih junjung', a must gift from the groom. It's comprises of betel nut leaves and accompaniments such as various kind of nice smelling flowers - jasmines & roses etc, star anise, cinnamon sticks just to name a few. I should have labeled my previous entry on this one coz I did write a pretty detail description about it.

Female guests at the other side.

My latest nephew! This one looks like a Japanese isn't it? So cute!

Emir seems a bit lost?

The electricity was out throughout the entire ceremony, but luckily mom brought her fan although she did look slightly irritated when I took this picture. But hey, look at that baby! He sure know how to pose =)

Mr Farhan is always ready for a pose.

Poor Ezzat sweating profusely.

Thank you Grammy!

Terima kasih Grammy for sending us these cool cowboy hats! We got them last Friday =).

Not sure what they're talking about in this picture but Ezzat is pretending he is riding a horse with that box, and his brothers wants to do the same thing.

This boy is the only one who can sit still for a few seconds, enough for me to take this picture.

Also the very same day earlier , we went to Penang to pick up the medical report for my visa interview next week (We already went there the week before for the check up and thank god I only got 2 jabs and the kids none =)). And since we got there pretty early, we decided to go to the beach first. My sister, Nabila and Dad also followed us coz dad wanted to pick up his guitar at the port and Nab still has a few days left before she has to go back to her college.

This is a one happy boy.

This is also another happy boy.

Something is bothering these two. Notice Ezzat's face.

The wave was pretty strong that day.

Cute not so little foot prints.

I think we all had a great time on the beach that day even though we only spent like only an hour there.

Here's something I'm working on right now. Nab thinks the thread color is too pale. Do you think the same?

Random

Wow! It's been over a month since my last post! Actually, there's not so much going on in the world of the Bumblebeez either. But since someone did actually ask me to write more *wink*wink* I figured I should make a quick update =).

In a whirlwind, here's what has been going on around recently...

1. Today is the last day of midterm exam for Emir and Farhan. Yay!! The boys are looking forward to have their 2 weeks break especially Emir. Sometimes I wonder if school is not that exciting for him. I know for a fact that the system here is too exam-oriented and everything is counted based on the exam result and sometimes it creates stress on the children. Is it a right thing to ask a kid how many As can he/she produce everytime the exam is over? I think not.

2. We're at the last stage of our visa application. It's been over 6 months now since we first submitted the paperwork for the K-1 visa. I already got the last important document, which is the police report for my background check, and that alone took almost 2 months! I am waiting for the last package to come from the U.S Embassy in Kuala Lumpur which will contain my interview date! Wish me luck =)

3. And hence, I've tendered my resignation letter last 2 days, and my last day at work is on June 18th. That would give me more time to spend with the boys before going to Hawaii most probably in July, hopefully. The not so good part is that I have to be away from them for a couple of months until everything is ready. And I think that is very important.

4. Here's a Peach Yoghurt Flan that I made last night. I made one last week too but it didn't turned out that great coz the fresh mangos that I used were rather light in flavor and it turned out pretty bland for the flan. Mom said I should use mango concentrate/puree. Using peaches (canned) turned out much better. I never bake or do any of this kind of stuff until just recently, specifically for the past 2 months. I was never interested to help mom in the kitchen whenever she's baking. But last months, I was putting all my magazines and books in the box and I saw all these pretty pictures of mouth watering recipes and I am really interested to give them a try now. This one below, is a still a WIP.

5. We had a sleepover at the orchard last weekend. It's actually our first time spending time at night there. My friend, Cheri joined us along with my parents. We had BBQ and me and Cheri spent some girlie time after that watching some chick flicks. And I love morning time there!

At 7.15am

Sunrise at 7.30am!

View from the hall.

Farhan with Auntie Cheri.

Doe-eyed boy.

And here's a video that I took while waiting for the sunrise.